Saturday, August 02, 2008

人與人之間的關係是很微妙的

That's what I thought so especially when in situations like these - You met a new friend, and seems like magic, you both could just hit off well and cliqued. Or you both can't seem to get along well / can't stand the sight of each other but over the time, somehow things happened and brought you girls closer. Just like some kind of connection. And its not each and every friend share this kind of magical feeling with you.

Over the years, through the different phases of life, somehow I've adopted a mindset that friends come and go. As in, at one point in time, you were so close together, talked about everything, shared happiness and problems but next, drifted apart. Though in between maybe still in contact, but everything is totally different. The feeling is so distant. Or maybe worst scenario is, became hi-bye friends. When you reminisce those happy times, there's mixed feelings. Happy because you have those memories but parked in memory lane already, it just seems so impossible to relive those days.

There are exceptions too. Whereas, some friends though do not contact frequently but the bond is still very strong. I don't know how to explain either. The connection is so amazing. Hahaha. Probably friends who fall in this category are just so irritating nice that they wanna bug you for life. But I definitely heart them much.

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